25! & 28! wrote:Right! It's CIF's job to manage high school sports. Not tell athletes what they can and can't do outside of high school. That is a parent/child decision. If it's not your lifestyle, don't do it. If it is, the athlete and parets are willing and the grades and health are up, which is the case for us, then you should have the ability to make that decision for yourselves.
How old are your kids?
First, I get what you are saying.
Personally, going through the process a 2nd time, and now with my youngest kid in her last year of travel/high school softball, my opinion has changed some.
I have gone from thinking she needs to fill every waking moment with softball to realizing that she also needs some down time.
Especially during the high school season, when they are either practicing or playing sometimes 5 days a week with some Saturday tournaments mixed in. And pitching, fielding, hitting lessons somewhere in the mix as well.
JMHO...
Deserve's got nothin' to do with it.