by bucketboy » Tue Jan 27, 2009 6:30 am
Don't take the bait Mark, you don't need to justify anything to anybody except for the kids and parents that are on your team. Been there done that and got the t shirt and so do you.
Yes, we (not I) started something from ground zero many moons ago and it was and still is very successful. We did alot of things right, and a bunch of things wrong, but looking back I would do it all over again and why?
Because we provided something that has given many kids the opportunity to live their "Dreams" and go on to play ball in college. Yea there are many ex dreams playing elsewhere for one I folded my team and that meant 12 kids had to go find a new team. Some couldn't handle the expectations we had. Anybody remember us being chastized for putting on our tryout announcements no AAU basketball players back in the 10u/12u days? That got some hate mail on the message boards. Some left for the same reason many kids leave other teams. Every parent wants the best for their kid and if team B offers them more PT than they are getting then they may leave, but I can say that many of them find out the grass is not greener and either ask to come back or do come back at some point in time so those of you reading this that have bounced from team to team be careful not to burn any bridges because you may need to walk back across one of them someday.
If you feel a team is trying to use tactics then use it as a motivation tool that's what we did and if you let it get to you then they have succeeded. If it gets out of line talk to the tournament director and or the UIC and if they deem it is they will take care of the problem trust me.
Thanks for the comments, but I will have to say at this point Mark may be a little better than I because he is still subjecting himself to working with hormonal teenagers, their parents, and the members of his teams fan club, just like every other coach and team that has any kind of success has to deal with.
I made my mistakes and am not afraid to admit them and hopefully by doing so will help some of you so that you don't ruin friendships or burn a bridge so badly that it may cost your daughter the chance of playing for a quality team when it matters during the recruiting years.
Time to get to work so that I can pay for my daughter's expensive softball habit for the next year and a half. Have a great day!!!