So comical

You will never find a right or wrong answer. All this is a matter of someone's opinion plain and simple. Bottom line, you need to find out what works for you and your DD. Coaching/Managing a team is not an easy job and people need to remember not many coaches get paid to do this, and as for "Team Mom" that from my understanding is another position that is voluntary, whether you are a coaches wife or not, they too donate their time to the team and do not get any compensation for it. In all honesty, all any of these people get is a lot of flack from more than likely disgruntled parents. In my years of experience, I have always chosen to get the facts myself, do the research and go directly to the source, and have been lucky to have a wonderful team and a great coaches and a good "Team Mom". They couldn't pay me enough to do any of it, its a thankless job! But I thank all Coaches and Parents "Team Moms or Dad's that put themselves out there for all our DD's. On that note good luck with your choices but if you want the right answer, draw your own opinions and talk to them yourself
