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by ontheblack » Wed May 15, 2013 1:54 pm

AlwaysImprove wrote:Too many varied scenarios. As Spazsdad points out, some kids life experience can be greatly enhanced by playing some great softball and getting a degree. Others may be super smart kids where softball can become that ticket to that next level university.

For some they pursue it until it becomes crystal clear that it is not going to happen, still they learned a lot, made some friends, stayed out of the malls, learned a ton about life and how to handle themselves.

I do think that people are being much more intelligent about their recruiting approach. They know the coach only knows so much, can only help you so much. Unless are on a Firecrackers, BatBusters, Corona Angles level of team. That reckless pursuit of softball scholarship often results in bad decisions.

Also, I chuckle when people point at others after they have a challenging event. Whether that be not getting into a college, getting into a college and not doing that well and coming home. My life was certainly never straight forward. Quite often after one of these 'challenges', I land square on my feet, build something great, and it is those that were laughing that are end up calling me asking me if there is any work.

Rarely is life is a straight path. Only know a few people that have had that straight path. They are boring people and I don't enjoy their company much.


Excellent points. I'm betting that many heads were nodding while reading your last two paragraphs.
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by blue1956 » Wed May 15, 2013 2:08 pm

Softball is only a tool to get you a paid education....so for me education first prepare for life after softball....because the Softball road comes to a sudden halt!!!
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by DonnieS » Wed May 15, 2013 2:26 pm

Regarding getting high stats and setting records, the only stat the girls care about is the W. As the youngest put it, "if we don't win, all the records don't mean sxxx". Eloquent little lady. And as far as choices, its a little difficult to know - - what you are getting into. Any school can turn into a power, it takes getting the right kids and coaches who know how to win, sounds simple huh.
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by hit4power » Wed May 15, 2013 3:07 pm

Too many varied scenarios. As Spazsdad points out, some kids life experience can be greatly enhanced by playing some great softball and getting a degree. Others may be super smart kids where softball can become that ticket to that next level university.


I agree, I don't think it's that hard for most kids/families. There will be very very few kids that have both the academics and softball skills to have real options from top D-1 all the way to Ivy/NESCAC/academically elite D-3. The TB program my kid played with put kids into that full range of college programs but the kids that were getting upper D-1 looks didn't have the academics for Ivies and the kids that had the Ivy level academics weren't good enough players to get any interest from the upper D-1's. I think for most, the range of options measured by academics or softball skill is not that big.
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by PDad » Wed May 15, 2013 3:29 pm

blue1956 wrote:Softball is only a tool to get you a paid education....

Softball can be far more than that. I view it as a means to a better education and/or college experience (without compromising the education). Besides the financial aspect, it can motivate girls to work harder on academics in HS, gain admittance to schools they wouldn't get in otherwise and/or make a degree feasible with the added support structure.
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by DonnieS » Wed May 15, 2013 3:43 pm

PDad wrote:
blue1956 wrote:Softball is only a tool to get you a paid education....

Softball can be far more than that. I view it as a means to a better education and/or college experience (without compromising the education). Besides the financial aspect, it can motivate girls to work harder on academics in HS, gain admittance to schools they wouldn't get in otherwise and/or make a degree feasible with the added support structure.


I told my kids, you are going to work at a job, or play sports. This b/s 4 year vacation doesn't cut it. I didn't get it, my brothers didn't get it. I am the undereducated with only a bachelors and a little grad school. I was so happy when I graduated - because then all I had to do was work. Playing softball and partying and studying is better than working and partying and studying.
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by Pale Rider » Wed May 15, 2013 5:54 pm

me...personally...I want to build a Tiki Bar in the Fl Keys and get paid to watch folks get hammered...Not sure about my DD
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by jonriv » Wed May 15, 2013 6:07 pm

Pale Rider wrote:me...personally...I want to build a Tiki Bar in the Fl Keys and get paid to watch folks get hammered...Not sure about my DD

Let me know when you open it :D
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by DonnieS » Wed May 15, 2013 6:18 pm

jonriv wrote:
Pale Rider wrote:me...personally...I want to build a Tiki Bar in the Fl Keys and get paid to watch folks get hammered...Not sure about my DD

Let me know when you open it :D


A second career plan that makes good sense.
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by GIMNEPIWO » Wed May 15, 2013 7:34 pm

Assuming college is what my DD wanted to do ... I would rather her make her own choices, build her own life and be happy ... Because all that DI, DII, DIII, MD, School Teacher, Engineer, Lawyer or ditch digger don't mean a hill of beans if you aren't happy.
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