Iluvblue wrote:ICMTM wrote:The real purpose of this thread is so parents can have an easier road map on where to take their kids. Coaches are not going to have a heart to heart with parents, and they are not going to put all their needs and wants on Heybucket. They don't have to for starters, and to basically ask coaches to depth chart kids isn't fair to the kids they have. Even though all coaches have a depth chart why are we asking them to rate their 13 year old kids and post about it on a website? That's for the parent to figure out. If you want a better idea of where your kid stands contact each coach directly.
Make an honest assessment of your kid and find kids of her ability to play with. The rest takes care of itself.
You said it much better than I:)
I'm a parent and don't have any interest in the 14U landscape. I am at liberty to spell it out.
We all would love for our kids to be the elite kid on an elite team. Unfortunately most parents of kids just leaving 12U haven't seen elite unless this is their second kid in the game, mom played in college, or you have had exposure to fastpitch at a higher level previous to your kid getting there. Even baseball guys have a learning curve and you still have to see an elite female athlete to fully get it.
The best thing you can do as parents is learn the atmosphere of fastpitch softball and how your kid fits into it. Your kid doesn't have to play on a listed team on these boards to be a good player, and if you're constantly playing against these good teams it means you're getting the same work.


























