by Iluvblue » Thu Aug 16, 2012 8:07 am
Ovwt and bald,
I can not tell you the number of players I have lost out on in the past few years because the parent wanted their kid coming out of 12u to place them on my 16u team. I basically refused because i feel, as you do, that the kid needs to get better first before they move up.
Too many coaches wanting to keep up with what everyone else is doing. Oh... that team is in socal 4 times during summer, so I better do it also. Too many followers not enough leaders.
Your kid can not be on a team where they are by far the best player, and they cant be on a team where they are by far the weakest. They need to play, and they need to win to gain confidence. If they are sitting 75% of the innings, you are on the wrong team.