ontheblack wrote:@CUlater,
It's not about clout. Most teams know when they enter what their intentions are with regard to moving on in championship play. I think this bit PGF last year when they learned at the last minute that an out of state 14U team that had earned a berth wasn't coming and they had to scramble a few days before to find a team to fill the spot.
Regardless, this really isn't about two team's dramatics, but about clarifying rules. Creating rules that account for every scenario takes time and few entities get it right from the start.
I disagree that you have to have 100% clear and complete rules for every possible situation. You should have rules that cover most of the common cases, and have a board that addresses issues as they arise. If you do not trust the board, play in a different association, there are plenty to pick from.
Yes this is a dramatic situation for this team, for these players and families. It will not be the last dramatic situation for these folks. Also, will not be the last time drama comes up in softball.
Also this pales in comparison to what these girls face as they get to be 16,17,18, like drugs, teen age pregnancy, college. It was not clear to me when my kid was 12, but it is way more clear now. Those that wrap up in the drama too much, will not need to worry much about softball, rules, how their team got wrecked by a coach or by some players. Kids from parents that engage in the drama always seem to get way busy with things way worse.
So while it is hard, make sure you spend most of your energy maintaining perspective, it will pay dividends in the future.