Bucket/Gunshy/Slapper
Not having softball is different, but very relaxing. Since DD and the remaining core of the Wizards deciding that last summer was the end, many people, myself included, wondered how I would handle my Summer.
I had a few texts last weekend while y'all were in Jasper to check and see how I was doing. While I miss the camraderie of the coaches, the actual X and O's of the game, and spending time with my daughter; I don't miss the travel to and from the tournaments; herding sheep (players); minding tourney brackets; watching other games; dealing with other parents; some umpires or some tournament directors who clearly don't know how to set up a double elimination bracket, etc.
It was nice and peaceful last weekend. I didn't have rain delays, I wasn't waiting on a game to get over so that our team could play the winner/loser. I wasn't in Jasper at 8:45 PM still coaching. This Summer I have time to go to concerts at Deercreek/Verizon/Klipsch. I am going to St. Marteen for a week with my family (including my DD who didn't play travel ball). It also helps that I got remarried in January, so my new bride helps me pass the time too
Long and short of it is, you'll miss it, but not as much as you think you will.
Brian