NWISoftballGuy wrote:That's the way it should be slapperdad! If the girls work hard, they deserve to be put on the field! Let me ask you, if the girls make the same errors inning after inning, and game after game, do you leave the girl in, or pull her for the better of the team?
That's kind of a loaded question. Without knowing the situation, impossible for me to address. However, here's some things to think about:
A. Why is the kid making the same mistakes over and over? Can she perform this task in practice?
B. Where are you in your season? Is it early, you're looking at different combinations? Is it late when you're making your run? Is this kid currently in the midst of Volleyball, Basketball, 4H, Piano lessons, all of the above?
C. Is this the kid you have to have there, you just have to get her over whatever it is?
D. Do you have someone else to take her place if you yank her?
E. What about the kid personally, say for instance this kid has a great bat, and she's hitting the snot out of the ball. Say she's struggling at 2nd base. If I yank her at 2nd, does that affect her plate performance? Maybe I can live with a error here or there out of her at 2nd, so long as she's hitting .490 and getting a couple of RBI's per game.
F. What's it do to the team if I yank her. Is she a Debbie Downer, if she's sitting on the bench will she bring the whole team down. Don't ever underestimate the chemistry aspect of any team.
G. What happens to the team if I leave her in there, does the team lose confidence in her? Girls
can quickly alienate a kid who can't perform at the level they need her to be.
These are just a few random thoughts, some of what goes into my decision making process.
I'll be honest, I've played it both ways, I've probably yanked kids with a few mistakes (ask my kid, she usually is used to make a point) and played kids longer than I should have based partly on my thoughts above. As a coach, you have to know your team, you have to know and understand the individuals that make up your team, and what they need from you as a coach to perform at their best.
As a coach, I've never worried about parents, personal friendships, or any of that stuff. As a coach I know I've got to make some difficult and sometimes unpopular decisions. I have no problem sleeping at night knowing, I always did what I felt was best for the team. Have I screwed up at times, absolutely, but you live and you learn.