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by BenAround » Thu Jun 16, 2011 11:07 am

sofbal1234 wrote:BenAround, can I come? I wanna play!!!! :D


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by sofbal1234 » Thu Jun 16, 2011 12:03 pm

BenAround wrote:
sofbal1234 wrote:BenAround, can I come? I wanna play!!!! :D


NO you need 261 more posts, or just donate big $$$ to HB like Joe does !
:? :shock: :twisted: :o :( :evil: :cry: ;) :) :oops: :D :P :| :geek: :?: 8-) :lol: :lol: :idea: :x :arrow: :idea: 8-)

Funny thing you should mention that BA... On several occasions now i've attempted to donate funds via my droid thru my paypal account and hasn't gone through? Is that the only way to do so or is there an address to send checks or money orders to??? Thanks in advance! Oh and btw... no kissin a$$ just know the funds can be used toward a website I use constantly and grown to love! ;)
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by fastpitchdad05 » Thu Jun 16, 2011 12:08 pm

joaquinjunior wrote:As a Coach myself. You don't have to be Mad to Yell. its just a way of coaching. Nothing personal. We still love the girls.


You know it's nothing personal. The question is...do they?
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by fastpitchdad05 » Thu Jun 16, 2011 12:18 pm

lucky wrote:YOU can pick a coach/team for YOUR daughter, and I can pick a coach/team for MY daughter.

I won't tell YOUR coach how to coach YOUR daughter, please don't tell MY coach how to coach MY daughter, deal?


I really feel like you're completely missing the point. No one's telling anyone how to coach, just giving opinions on what they think will work best. If the majority here don't agree with your style or the style you prefer that's ok...it's just other people's opinions.

I'll reiterate mine...there's a time and a place to raise your voice, but if you're yelling all the time, not only does it lose its effectiveness, it's probably also a signal that either that player (or players) that you are yelling at need to be politely replaced. Or you need to consider hanging up your coaching hat because you've likely become too bitter and frustrated to be effective.
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by sofbal1234 » Thu Jun 16, 2011 12:29 pm

fastpitchdad05 wrote:
lucky wrote:YOU can pick a coach/team for YOUR daughter, and I can pick a coach/team for MY daughter.

I won't tell YOUR coach how to coach YOUR daughter, please don't tell MY coach how to coach MY daughter, deal?


I really feel like you're completely missing the point. No one's telling anyone how to coach, just giving opinions on what they think will work best. If the majority here don't agree with your style or the style you prefer that's ok...it's just other people's opinions.

I'll reiterate mine...there's a time and a place to raise your voice, but if you're yelling all the time, not only does it lose its effectiveness, it's probably also a signal that either that player (or players) that you are yelling at need to be politely replaced. Or you need to consider hanging up your coaching hat because you've likely become too bitter and frustrated to be effective.

No one coach "constantly" yells, so even that statement doesn't hold water... I think we ALL get the point now though! Just sayin ;)
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by fastpitchdad05 » Thu Jun 16, 2011 12:32 pm

sofbal1234 wrote:
fastpitchdad05 wrote:
lucky wrote:YOU can pick a coach/team for YOUR daughter, and I can pick a coach/team for MY daughter.

I won't tell YOUR coach how to coach YOUR daughter, please don't tell MY coach how to coach MY daughter, deal?


I really feel like you're completely missing the point. No one's telling anyone how to coach, just giving opinions on what they think will work best. If the majority here don't agree with your style or the style you prefer that's ok...it's just other people's opinions.

I'll reiterate mine...there's a time and a place to raise your voice, but if you're yelling all the time, not only does it lose its effectiveness, it's probably also a signal that either that player (or players) that you are yelling at need to be politely replaced. Or you need to consider hanging up your coaching hat because you've likely become too bitter and frustrated to be effective.

No one coach "constantly" yells, so even that statement doesn't hold water... I think we ALL get the point now though! Just sayin ;)


Depends on who you ask. "Constant" in this case can be subjective.
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by sofbal1234 » Thu Jun 16, 2011 12:34 pm

True that, fpd05... true that!!!
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by ontheblack » Thu Jun 16, 2011 1:14 pm

sofbal1234 wrote:
lucky wrote:YOU can pick a coach/team for YOUR daughter, and I can pick a coach/team for MY daughter.

I won't tell YOUR coach how to coach YOUR daughter, please don't tell MY coach how to coach MY daughter, deal?

Thank you Lucky ;) GREAT "DEAL"!!!! ;) Debate that otb!!! Mr. Know-it-all!!! :o


Has anyone said anything about telling coaches how to coach? The discussion is about whether or not certain coaching styles are necessary to get successful results.

Really,1234, can you focus a bit more and try to keep up? I would type slower, but I know that wouldn't help you much.
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by Battle » Thu Jun 16, 2011 1:14 pm

Maybe it's all the smilies and caps you use....too many smilies and caps piss me off sometimes.
I think they subconsciously remind me of that Grand Master Flash knucklehead.
But jeez, sometimes your volume level is set pretty high, and like Spaz, it hurts my brain.

LOL...Have you ever tried to imitate Flasher's writing? It's not as easy as it would seem. He put alot of work into trying to be obnoxious. ;)
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by BenAround » Thu Jun 16, 2011 1:27 pm

sofbal1234 wrote:
BenAround wrote:
sofbal1234 wrote:BenAround, can I come? I wanna play!!!! :D


NO you need 261 more posts, or just donate big $$$ to HB like Joe does !
:? :shock: :twisted: :o :( :evil: :cry: ;) :) :oops: :D :P :| :geek: :?: 8-) :lol: :lol: :idea: :x :arrow: :idea: 8-)

Funny thing you should mention that BA... On several occasions now i've attempted to donate funds via my droid thru my paypal account and hasn't gone through? Is that the only way to do so or is there an address to send checks or money orders to??? Thanks in advance! Oh and btw... no kissin a$$ just know the funds can be used toward a website I use constantly and grown to love! ;)


I'll PM you the address to send the checks to !!!!!!!
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