BReal wrote:As a matter of fact, the Ex-Xtreme 10u are a talented group of girls, don’t think anyone is disputing this known and observable fact. All one has to do is watch the girls play the game.
A team’s record or collection of hardware does not solely define a team; unfortunately, two coaches on this team (we all know who they are) have a reputation that supersedes and prevents this team from being a great team. Being ostracized and completely disassociated by a softball organization is ultimately a direct reflection upon the coaches. Being an outcast from a known and recognizable organization is not a source of pride for most individuals. The fact these two coaches are no longer part of the organization does NOT all of a sudden elevate them to greatness as indicated in a previous message.
I don't remember saying anywhere about being proud of no longer being a part of Xtreme. I said I was proud of my team and things are going well for us now. I have not, nor will I ever, air out any of the dirty laundry that went along with not only the release of the two players, or the dirty laundry of our team being released from the organization on this thread. It is a private matter that involves individuals, from the Xtreme board, to its families, past and present, on down to those of us who were "ostracized" as you put it. There has been enough HURT from this situation, and it would do all some good to put it in the rear view mirror.
I simply was posting in response to the playing up thing, and have gotten a little over all this. Some on here like to create new names and keep "dancing in the shadows"...
BReal, you either were a part of things that happened with the team, or you only know one side of the story, I can assure you there is always another side...
SlapperDad, I will most certainly look you up and have a friendly chat next time, and if you see me, please do the same. You were nameless and faceless to me until I "connected the dots"... I honestly thought you were someone else... I am not an "old timer" to Heybucket, so I do not know who everyone is...