32 pages in and it just keeps getting more confusing……I have been around travel ball for many years. I have been through it with 1 daughter and I am starting it with the next. I read the forums regularly, but this is my first post. I am sure I will come to regret it.
Am I supposed to seek out the best competition or keep it fun? Half of the veterans talk about being careful to burn the girls out while the other half believes you should travel the country with ten year olds looking for better teams.
Here is what I have observed. Girls burn out for many reasons. Some are pushed too hard, some choose other sports, some get jobs, some go boy crazy and some just do not want to put the work in it takes to keep improving. Some of the girls that burn out will be stud players from the best teams that shock you and others fall off the B teams that think everything is supposed to be about fun. Other girls on those B teams will be playing on Gold teams in a few years. There is no right answer…….Just enjoy the trip.
Although I do believe that teams need to be challenged and should play good competition, this is not the only way for the team to improve. Maybe a team plays down in order to allow bench players to gain game experience at certain positions. Would the team not improve by improving its depth? Is the team trying to build confidence? I don’t advocate beating up weaker teams, but getting away for a weekend from a team that has your number is sometimes a good thing.
We are a registered A team. When we play NSA tournaments, which are the bigger tournaments in Indiana at the younger ages, they combine the A and B teams. The competition level can be up and down. If we play the ASA tournaments in June, we may not get to play. These tournaments were cancelled last year due to poor turnout. Just pointing out that the right answers aren’t always crystal clear………..


























