Wondering where you think high school freshmen and sophomores with realistic college aspirations should be playing next year? 16u or 18u or 18 Gold? What do you mean that if you want to get seen you need to be at the "big showcases and qualifiers,"
I think that depends on your team and what type of college you want. Personally, my plan for the kiddo is one more year of 14's, 9th grade at 16's, and Gold after that. That's assuming a lot, but everyone has to start a plan somewhere, right?
As for the showcases and qualifiers comment, that's really aimed at the 2nd yr 14's, 16's & 18's and I probably shouldn't have included in this thread. But since we're here

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- I think North TX in particular is massively lacking in quality 16 and 18G teams
- Are they going to RM, Fireworks/Sparkler/Indy, Vegas, Surf City, NJ, Rising Stars? I know you can't hit them all, but if you take a look at the schedules for some of our Gold teams, the biggest exposure on their schedule is RM. I know that's an awesome tournament, but Suzy isn't getting recruited by her beloved AZ or UCLA there.
- I don't think coaches and parents are very focused, even though everyone says they are. Does the coach have a team plan other than to
qualify for nationals? Where do they see their team in 6 mos, 2 years, etc. Are the parents aligning their kids with teams, players, parents with the same goals or are we caught up in playing for the big name that wins local tournaments?
I've said this before, there's nothing wrong with going to a smaller D1, NAIA, DIII, etc. It may fit perfectly into Suzy's plan for becoming an architect or whatever. I just think we have a large amount of girls here, many with huge talent and/or potential, and only 3 routes to go- join the 1 big name Gold team, drive to Houston, play out of state. However the 14-18 landscape is changing fast and will hopefully catch up.
JMHO