DonnieS wrote:Terrible. A child should not be rewarded for hard work, diligence and talent.
Agreed. They should be rewarded for doing exactly what we want them to do at all times.
It is an interesting question though. You've got kids who (presumably) have worked hard all season within an organization, practiced, fund-raised, etc....only to have their spot taken by a last-minute addition to the team.
There are two contingently valid schools of thought, I would think.
1) You go with the horse what brung ya. Here you resign yourself to a less successful outcome (at least in terms of game results) at state/nationals, but in a sense you remain truer to the kids/families that put you where you are.
2) You bring in a kid who can help you be more competitive, and in a (different) sense are truer to the kids/families who put their faith in your ability to build a competitive team.
Which one applies probably depends on the perceptions of the kids/families involved, and what their legitimate expectations and tolerances are.