by 23Skidoo » Tue Jul 06, 2010 5:54 am
I think this is a good example of why some talented softball players in central Indiana do not ascend to the better college softball programs - uneducated parents; i.e., parents who stand in the way of their daughter's success, because (a) they refuse to educate themselves on the process until it is far too late; (b) they refuse to recognize that there are multiple opportunities to gain exposure outside of central Indiana; and (c) they refuse to recognize that college coaches recruit parents or, better said, some kids don't get recruited because of their parents.
If your daughter is a senior and you're asking these types of questions now, your daughter has likely missed her opportunity, but don't blame her or others - blame yourself. It appears that the parents and coach(es) of Ali and Darcy were several steps ahead of you. There is no need to be jealous, really. Do you really consider it appropriate to make a distasteful statement about someone else's success? Do you think that a college coach would consider your remarks appropriate in any setting?
If you are only concerned about the local news coverage, write a letter to the editor of the local paper, don't call kids out in this forum. I congratulate Ali and Darcy on receiving their scholarship offers from Purdue and for verbally accepting the same. In five months they can formalize their commitments.