slapperdad wrote:Several questions come to mind:
1. How does your HC take it when you ask them not to tinker with your DD's swing?
2. How many continue with private instructors during high school season?
3. What do you do when your coach forbids you from going to your private instructor during the high school season?
Just curious, I'm a high school rookie.
Good questions. Here's how I would handle it:
1. If a parent were to tell me "not to tinker" with a swing, I would tell them I will make adjustments if I feel it's necessary.
2. I would recommend to any parent to scale back any instruction their DD is getting during the season. I would tell them your DD is going to get plenty of reps at practice; if the parent and/or coach feel the kid needs some help in a certain area, then go to the hitting instructor and work on that.
3. I don't know how a HS coach can "forbid" a player from seeing their private instructor. If the HS coach feels that visiting a private instructor during the season is a distraction for the player, then they should say something to the parent. Ultimately, it's the parents' choice to decide what is worthwhile for their kid.
The bottom line is the HS coach should know what their players are doing with their private instructors (I need to do a better job of this, btw). Establishing common language with the instructors has been beneficial for me. If the girls sense you know what they're attempting to do, then credibility is established; which improves the relationship between the player and coach.