by rhpft » Thu Jan 07, 2010 2:18 am
Damn! Based on the tone of the responses, I feel like I need to apologize for asking what appears to be a stupid question! They were great responses, and I agree with them, especially the to stay sharp response, but not all kids are the same, nor are their situations the same. I know of a kid who is a high school sophomore and took off this past fall from travel/select for the first time since she was 6 years old. Probably wasn't the best idea, since there are many fall college showcases, but in order to keep playing in the future, it was necessary. This kid is a very talented player, and appears to love the game, but less than a month off from softball each year for 10 years was beginning to wear on this maturing teenager. Now, she is moving onto her sophomore varsity and summmer select/travel seasons and her batteries are recharged to play. Already within 3 weeks of the beginning of her high school season, she has picked up right where she left off this past summer and is playing at a level above the kids who played this past fall. The reason I asked the question is that due to her talent, this kid has the ability to play college softball at a high level and potentially D1. However, unless she gets alot of her college paid for through a softball scholarship, she probably won't go but to a junior college because her family, even though they have the money to send her anywhere, is not willing to pay for any of her college as none of her family members attended college themselves. What's more, although I beleive in the keeping your skills sharp issue, her single mother, who would be willing to pay for all of her college if she had the money, has shelled out thousands upon thousands of dollars since she was 6 years old and has viewed select/travel softball as an investment toward some sort of future in college softball where alot of it was paid for. If it is necessary, and for good reason, I assume the mother would attempt to shell out another $2500-3000 again for another season of select/travel ball after signing day, if/when her daughter signs, but at this time, her mother asks why she would do that when she could save that and give it to her daughter for college instead?