insoftballnut wrote:gunshy wrote:Boy it is easy to see the parents who have never been a part of a team rendered dysfunctional by bad chemistry. Chemistry is not a coaching "type" and has nothing to do with x's and O's. You have to understand the difference between coaching and chemistry. Chemistry isn't sitting in circles singing songs or even being close friends off the field, but it IS focusing on TEAM rather than on ME and doing whatever it takes to be team-successful when the uniform goes on. Easily one of the most talented groups of players I have coached had work ethic, skill, experience and all things that look good on an INDIVIDUAL resume, but led to the longest travel summer and most disappointing Nationals I have ever endured as a coach. They had horrible team chemistry and regardless of teaching or talent, couldn't suceed as a group. #2 hitter doesn't want to sac bunt for lead off because it makes lead off look better than her, #2 pitcher who is CLEARLY #2 whines every game that #1 pitches and makes the dugout miserable, Outfielder's parents convince their daughters that, since they played infield for their crappy high school teams, they are better than the all-verballed infield regardless of what practice tells us, there are whispers and giggles in the dugout late in the game at Nationals with the team down 4-2, and the list goes on. This team had no chance for success because of above the shoulders issues and influences from outside the dugout. They could never get anywhere, regardless of their great talent, because they were never paddling the boat in the same direction as a group. If you think chemistry is not a major factor in a team's success, you are SADLY mistaken.
#2 batter, If she has to bunt to advance lead off once and awhile when needed, I can see that,,but if the #2 is a slugger and she is doing this all the time, then you need to put a kid that is not a slugger and an expert bunter in the #2 spot,,thats if the leadoff gets on base the majority of time, like 90% of the time. Even though your #2 is good for this option- your wasting her heavy bat 90% of the time. move your #2 over to the #3 spot and get your worst slugger with some speed to do nothing but be an expert bunter.
Put your #2 pitcher at the end of the dugout with an ipod on with her favorite music untill it's her turn to pitch and tell her to chill on the tunes, this will relax her,, or put a dugout strict mom or dad in there to keep them all cheering and focused on the game instead of stewing in their pew.
All these kids should be focased on the game at hand, like being at work. When work is over then it's time to do whatever,
Parents job is to make sure lil debbie knows when it's game time {work}. No parents should question the coach during a game, befor or rite after,, make arrangements with him to voice your concerns,,
Dammit!!!!
Every kid out there on a team, has a job to do,, Go do your jobs and eveything falls in place.
You want chemistry ,, take it in School