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[thatguy]

why are you guys angry???? cant we just find out what happened??? you guys can freely talk about havings affairs and beat up on everybody that speaks out??? whats up with bringing this up??? its not like it didn't happen!!!!!!!!!

If you are so sure that "it" happened, why are you asking what happened?

[HEY DAD]

i only know "it" happened . i dont know "what" happened....

[NumeroUno]

the only reason another post was started -- is simple. numero, you deleted the last posting before anybody could respond??? this is a forum for people to ask questions-- right?

Hey Dad I have not deleted any posts about it, where did you get your info from? Try posting something positive and quit trying to start Sh$t. You might want to try the National Enquirer

[Skarp]

the only reason another post was started -- is simple. numero, you deleted the last posting before anybody could respond??? this is a forum for people to ask questions-- right?

Are you retarded?

[bunt-n-run]

Hey Dad....what exaclty is your question? I find it hard to beleive it wasn't covered in your original post??? I'm looking at your horse and it seems as though it's dead and been beaten to a pulp

[Skarp]

the only reason another post was started -- is simple. numero, you deleted the last posting before anybody could respond??? this is a forum for people to ask questions-- right?

Try posting something positive and quit trying to start Sh$t.

What fun is that?

[NumeroUno]

It is not fun at all I was just trying to be politically correct. It also saves me from hate mail

[HEY DAD]

i see how it is now with hey bucket. you bring up a topic that they dont like and they either delete the posting or block you out temporairly so they can talk stuff about your posting. is this an open forum or is this ran by a dictatorship??? i am not cusing like you guys are!!!!!!!

i am just trying to try blog like everybody else .....

[Shaskell]

HEY DAD ... To answer your question(s) as to "my parent meeting" on Saturday after our 3rd pool play game? Very productive ... Yes, I'm an emotional and compassionate coach that works very hard on player development - I'm not perfect but I strive for that perfection as I challenge my players to do the same. I'm not promising any parent and/or player a college scholarship but earn my marks as a player developer - Calling my players names? No! Holding my players accountable? Yes. Have I made mistakes? Yes. Do I (as many coaches) add value to a players' "process?" Yes. This thread is not about "drinking the Kool-Aid" ... it's called philosophy - it has to work for you as a parent and/or player.

Let me make a point by saying that others have communicated their opinion(s) and that is what they are - opinions. To post a thread as to "Is it true?" ... "What happened?" ... "Did you hear?" ... And some pretty sick comments regarding "famous parents quotes" I might add ... I need not go there - that thread was beat up over-and-over and belongs to another organization ... Not mine.

Instead, HEY DAD - Come to one of my conditioning and/or field practices and take some ground balls, show us your latest and greatest techniques and share with us your coaching philosophies - our parents will be thrilled to know the person behind the "Author's" name ... HEY DAD.

[GIMNEPIWO]

Last week ... 2 gals made bad plays on DD's HS team... one on the bases was a real 'bone-head ' move ... the other was not being aggressive enough on a play in the outfield ... Coach Hosehead kept riding the gals until they each broke down and cried in the dugout ... instead of saying his piece and dropping it ... he rode them and rode them, on and on until the cried and they kept on them ...
SO ... I say, you are the Coach, Not their Grandmother, if you just point out what they do good you are a Grandmother not a Coach ... but there are right ways and wrong ways to handle constructive critisism ... and one of my favorites is to say " WE need to work on that "
AS Arto observed :
" his runner was thrown out at 2nd base on a steal attempt. as she shuffled slowly by him to their dugout, shoulders slooped, head down, he yells loud enough for everyone within 100 feet to hear: "That's why I don't steal you, you can't run, and you don't know how to slide! Now get in the dugout!"
I say that this girl already felt like crap ... its a small weak person that has to tear a person down to build themselves up ... the facts are; 1.) but he did steal her, unless she went on her own 2.) if she did run as fast as she could, its the job of the Coach to know his players limitations 3.) If she doesn't know how to slide, who's fault is that ? ... In any event, this is a teachable moment for both the Coach and the player ...
Are you sure this guy doesn't moonlite as a HS Coach in VA. ? I'd like to be a fly on the wall for the 'intimate converstion' Skarp wants to have with him ... LMAO!