CONCERNS ABOUT PEOPLE AND THEIR COMMENTS

[Fastpitch4Life]

Wow!
Wish I could get in on this conversation but I'm too young for this oldtimer stuff.
Good stuff though boys!

Your time will come. The party's over anyway, now I've got to get to the category where I find out if my 9 year old should learn to slap or drag bunt or both

[Skarp]

I'm with the OP. F'ing people and their f'ing comments. There ought to be a motherf'ing law.

[PDad]

I'm with the OP. F'ing people and their f'ing comments. There ought to be a motherf'ing law.

Too f'ing funny! Skarp comes out of hiding to put a hijacked thread back on topic.

[ontheblack]

And Skarp brings it full circle.

(of course while we were being delinquents, Skarp was playing on his computer and figuring out how to print his own money)

[Skarp]

I'm with the OP. F'ing people and their f'ing comments. There ought to be a motherf'ing law.

Too f'ing funny! Skarp comes out of hiding to put a hijacked thread back on topic.

I only read as far as Art's "moob" post. Figures it got jacked though. This is the f'ing bucket after all.

[Vagrant99]

[AM Softball]

Wambulance,

I applaud your efforts but it obvious, and I know from personal experience, that you will never win on a board where people hide behind their computers, lie, and are allowed to talk about people in the way that that do. I guarentee they would not speak like this if they had to sign their names at the bottom. Those people are simply cowards but with how people get banned or blackballed these days, I unfortunately, understand.

A bit of advice: I would simply write numero uno, explain to him why you feel it is an inappropriate comment, and I believe he has a good heart and would take it down. He seems to be fair and understanding when it comes to the kids. This type of post will only make it worse.

A few years ago, I decided not to take part in the polls because of this exact reason. It was just ugly and was filled with opinions that belittled teams and players. I wanted no parts of that because I am here to support kids, not talk trash about them. State the facts and constructive opinions and people will respect it. Name calling, criticizing little girls, and posting disrespectful pictures (like we have seen in this thread and others) is downright unacceptable, regardless if the kids are looking at it or not. It's just gross. Just because the kids are not reading it, doesn't make it ok.

I do agree with you though and wanted to show you some support in a place where people rarely support anyone. I use this site to promote the sport and chime in to things that I find interesting but leave the other nonsense alone. Anybody that feels the need to rip up young travel ball players and/or their teams on a public forum have self esteem ISSUES, in my opinion, and many others agree but are not posting in your defense because they too will be ripped up. You do have support from many people I know.

Bottom line. In my world, and most others, there is never an acceptable reason to bash 10-12-14-16 or even 18 year old "minor" girls (especially when it comes from adults) but I guess, from the looks of the posts here, there are a lot of people that disagree. That's exactly why the world is becoming what it is. They learn from the parents. Anyone that says it is ok is just wrong. It isn't ok.

Numerouno, I would delete a few of these posts (the foul language and nude pictures) and keep it a little classier when you are promoting that you are partnered with Worth, the NPF, etc. because I doubt those amazing organizations would treat the kids playing and supporting their business in this manor and I know you put a lot into this site and we do appreciate the positives that come from here. JMO

So you applaud wambulance comments toward closers daughter? Or what about the "Jack offs"?

I agree that the Cambell looking man in a box is gross. But the firecracker coach is a beauty. For that reason alone I would rank FC 98 over Victory 98. But then again who am I or you to judge. None of those pictures disrespected me like you stated. The man boobs picture made me think twice about my excersize regiment if anything. So for that, I'm thankful. Possitives in your negatives.

Nude pictures? That Lady had a nice summer outfit on! Jealousy can eat you up inside.

You shouldn't call Numerouno out like that! I too appreciate his hard work and think he has always shown class. By the way, I didnt catch your name on the bottom of the post.

signed,

Horacio Guadalupe Sanchez

I wasn't calling him out. I was just stating my opinion. Yes, the girl was beautiful but I believe there are other sites for these types of pictures...not a girls softball web site. Go figure. JMO again. If he disagrees, he will leave them up and we will agree to disagree. This is his site, not mine.

I always PM numerouno with my concerns and I said, he is fair and I believe he is here for the kids, unlike some of the comments on this site.

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[NumeroUno]

Wambulance,
I have not read this entire thread I was really busy this week and caught the tail end of it. I try to read as much crap I mean great knowledgeable input on this site as I can but I can't always get to all of it. I think you might have sent me a PM a while back but I never found what you were talking about. I could be wrong I get a lot of PM's. Anyway if you have any concerns PM me.

AM is right, when no one knows who anyone is it is very easy to be rude. I think the majority of the people on here are good people. But when you sit at your computer and no one knows who you are it makes it easy to take shots at people, something you would never do eye to eye.

Here is my 2 cents, this place is no place for minors, treat people like you want to be treated, if you come to a forum like this have thick skin, and "It is better to be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.",
Benjamin Franklin

[AM Softball]

not a girls softball web site.

This is not a girls softball website. It is a website for parents of girls who play softball.

Again, we can agree to disagree. IMO, this is a public site that anyone can join and parents, coaches, fans, and players use it.

Many parents allow their kids to read it. Many go on their own, as a guest, and read it. I know this is true from many players on many different teams. They want to see the rankings. They want to read what people say. They use it, even when we know they shouldn't.