Missinit wrote:Blind Squirrel wrote:YellowBalls wrote:Blind Squirrel wrote:Clean_up wrote:Believe it or not, 12U California teams don't walk around talking smack about Texas or even care, we have a respect for all kids playing the sport. Sad...
That must be a recent phenomenon. IOW, I believe it NOT. I'll believe CA parents have changed dramatically when I stop seeing stories about CA parents getting in fights at games and all the rest of the stories that have been talked about in here over the last year or so. I'll believe it when CA parents stop talking shit behind each others backs about their kid's team mates, opposing players and coaches and each other. Oh yeah, the difference is that they now do it with respect? That stuff doesn't occur with the new breed of CA parents? Is this profound change in parent behavior due to the Dog Whisperer attending 12U games?
John
WOW - chill dude. Don't pretend that California has the market cornered on bad behavior.

The post I responded to suggested that CA softball parents are better/above parents in another part of the country. I don't agree. I did not mean to imply that they are any worse. I suspect that youth sports parents are basically the same everywhere in this country.
I'm curious: Anyone want to suggest the things I stated about SoCal parents in my previous post are untrue? Anyone want to state that it isn't the case where they live?
John
First of all, how did clean up (I'm assuming that's who's post your referring to) compare CA parents to other parents or mention other parents in any way?
Second of all, seems to me your post closely resembles exactly what your SLAMMING ca parents for

Maybe I should have included more of CleanUp's post:
"Also heard that the entire park was rooting against the Firecrackers during their last game, kind of sad if that's true... Believe it or not, 12U California teams don't walk around talking smack about Texas or even care, we have a respect for all kids playing the sport. Sad..."
My interpretation of that is that the behavior of non-CA parents at that tournamant was "sad if that's true" and "...we [CA parents] have respect for all kids playing the sport" which I took to mean their behavior is superior. If my reading comprehension is once again lacking, I have yet again publicly shown what a dumbass I am and I apologize to CleanUP and regret my post.
I was slamming perceived arrogance, the notion that CA parents behave differently and better than others. I'm unsure how my post reflects such arrogance in any way. Quite the contrary. Then again, maybe I'm not getting what you are referring to when you are talking about what I slammed.
Correct me where I'm wrong. I'm quite used to it. I have nothing more to add to this thread.
John
10 years from now I'll wish I felt like I do these days.