by alwaysdrama » Tue Jul 24, 2012 7:37 am
The whole idea of there being two sides to every story is exactly correct as always.
The coach is just protecting his team by what he sees as a violation of the rules.This whole interpretation of the rules is silly...blah blah blah. Simply put the rule is in place specifically for this purpose. So a few kids/parents can't jump ship last minute to play in what they perceive to be a better " winning " situation. That's what these folks did and per the rules , they shouldn't be allowed to play. The whole " it's all about the kids, let them play " is also a dumb argument.
If that's the case then throw out all the rules concerning rosters. Why even have them ? There is always a deeper story though.
The 2 parents/kids in question started practicing with Team Az behind the Xtreme coaches back. They had expressed interest and had been contacted by Team Az about picking up.
What actually was discussed is obviously not know exactly , but the fact is , the 2 left because they didn't hear what they wanted ? Now that Xtreme was playing they didn't want to play with their " own " team ? or simply wanted greener pastures since Team Az is regarded as being a better team ?
The coach imo is simply saying why have a rule if you can simply leave a team last minute to play with another team ? As to Team Az , I see their side too.This whole " stealing of players " term makes me laugh. No one forces any parent to go to another team. A choice is made simple as that. The bigger question is why Team Az would feel the need to pick up after boldly proclaiming all year they they are the kings of the court and now will be the new Az Firecrackers in 14U?
Still a bigger question as some have said , what about the kids that played with this team all year to now get kicked to the curb because 2 new " stars " are on the team ?
12U ...really ?
Ironically though, this will probably cause it's own havoc showing coaches true colors and safe to say come tryout time the team might lose because of it. The same parents on this team who continue to cry " it's all about the girls" actually mean it's all about winning at any cost. Drama in softball, who would have thunk it ? LOL.
Add the final straw that Xtreme has picked up players all year and previous years in an effort to " show their strength " and are in fact picking up this week too a kid they picked up to play in the qualifier they played in Phoenix.
So what does that say about the whole situation ?
What goes around comes around. Treat others as you would expect to be treated.
Play for the game, not for the win. It is all about the girls, but some parents want to win more than their kids do to try and show " their greatness " .