by fasterpitch92701 » Wed Feb 27, 2008 7:11 pm
Much of this discussion hinges on the word "classless". DD played for a certain coach for two years. That coach made it very, very clear at the beginning of the year that ALL players and ALL parents represent the team and organization as a whole. ANYONE, parent or player, who acted in a manner that reflected poorly on the organization either by their verbal efforts, a display poor sportsmanship, cheating or was intentionally generating animosity with an opponent was removed from the tournament. Just leave. Go home. Second offense, removed from the team.
It was a no-b.s. rule. It eliminated a lot of questions. The team, parents, players and coaches, were known as a class organization by their opponents.
Of course there will be those who disagree. For those, a question: what is it you are teaching your daughters? And... best enjoy your softball now, until you are 18. After that, no decent college coach is going to want you vaguely near his/her team. Parent or player. Abusive players and parents (and the coaches see/notice/evaluate both) aren't wanted. They don't want "classless", player or parent.