madness wrote:L84DNR wrote:I have found a lot of good softball advice here
What?? Here??? Advise????
If you are making decisions off Heybucket advise then you shouldn't be making decisions.
GET OFF THE FIELD LOSER!
Vegasdad wrote:madness wrote:L84DNR wrote:I have found a lot of good softball advice here
What?? Here??? Advise????
If you are making decisions off Heybucket advise then you shouldn't be making decisions.
GET OFF THE FIELD LOSER!
And once again we go back to spell check. Since you quoted him about advice, couldn't you at least spell it right in your own post?
gripnrip wrote:I dont care what the situation is, what loyalties your supposed to have. For most of us we have one chance to get this right, to put our DDs in a situation that will raise their level of playing ability, knowledge of the game, and leadership. So many of you have talked about Power Surge and Fire Crackers...You know why there such a good organization? You know why there so successful? because they have good coaches that know the game, and more importantly know how to train and interact with GIRLS!!!!! If I made a mistake by putting my DD on a team that has poor coaching or a coach that be-littles our de-motivates the the team, or consistentley makes poor judgments during the games, I'm out of there!!! I dont care what team it is, who's feelings get hurt...They grow too fast, and theres now time to be a part of something that is moving or DDs in the wrong direction..especially after private lessons, club fee's, traveling cost, etc..We are investing time and money in our kids future, think of them first..are they happy? Do they respect their coach? can they learn from their coach? Everyone's so caught up in loyalties..where will they be next season, next year, college....players come and go...The right coach makes teams play for them based on their knowledge, and commitment to make them better players. They wont follow a yeller, a punisher, or a bully..their girls.
gripnrip wrote:I dont care what the situation is, what loyalties your supposed to have. For most of us we have one chance to get this right, to put our DDs in a situation that will raise they're level of playing ability, knowledge of the game, and leadership. So many of you have talked about Power Surge and Fire Crackers...You know why there such a good organization? You know why they're so successful? because they have good coaches that know the game, and more importantly know how to train and interact with GIRLS!!!!! If I made a mistake by putting my DD on a team that has poor coaching or a coach that be-littles our de-motivates the the team, or consistentley makes poor judgments during the games, I'm out of there!!! I dont care what team it is, who's feelings get hurt...They grow too fast, and theres now time to be a part of something that is moving or DDs in the wrong direction..especially after private lessons, club fee's, traveling cost, etc..We are investing time and money in our kids future, think of them first..are they happy? Do they respect their coach? can they learn from their coach? Everyone's so caught up in loyalties..where will they be next season, next year, college....players come and go...The right coach makes teams play for them based on their knowledge, and commitment to make them better players. They wont follow a yeller, a punisher, or a bully..they're girls.
gripnrip wrote:I dont care what the situation is, what loyalties your supposed to have. For most of us we have one chance to get this right, to put our DDs in a situation that will raise they're level of playing ability, knowledge of the game, and leadership. So many of you have talked about Power Surge and Fire Crackers...You know why there such a good organization? You know why they're so successful? because they have good coaches that know the game, and more importantly know how to train and interact with GIRLS!!!!! If I made a mistake by putting my DD on a team that has poor coaching or a coach that be-littles our de-motivates the the team, or consistentley makes poor judgments during the games, I'm out of there!!! I dont care what team it is, who's feelings get hurt...They grow too fast, and theres now time to be a part of something that is moving or DDs in the wrong direction..especially after private lessons, club fee's, traveling cost, etc..We are investing time and money in our kids future, think of them first..are they happy? Do they respect their coach? can they learn from their coach? Everyone's so caught up in loyalties..where will they be next season, next year, college....players come and go...The right coach makes teams play for them based on their knowledge, and commitment to make them better players. They wont follow a yeller, a punisher, or a bully..they're girls.
gripnrip wrote:Hey "Ace".... Not smart enough to understand the post huh? As parents its our job to steer or DDs in the right direction. She has had plenty of time to do the whole "team" thing. At what point do you think about her? Why did you leave your rec team? To better your DDs playing ability right? Why did'nt you just stay with them....how dare you teach her to quit on a team...come on now! See how far that would have taken her...show her to follow everyone else regardless of the situation...now thats life skills. I'm not sure what level your DDs at but someday you will understand. I never did any of this to benifit myself you idiot! I did it so she could have a chance to make her high school team and maybe have a chance at a scholarship. People like you are the reason why I wrote the post to begain with...Think you know it all but have no idea about the other side of the story...just black and white.
Sounds like someone broke your heart Ace, alot of negativity. Try http://www.match.com
