Phantom wrote: They don't realize that an agreement involves both parties living up to an agreement, both ways. Both parties get to choose what living up to the agreement means whether the other party likes it or not, this is where the rub and conflict is. The other party believing the other is not living up to the agreement doesn't make the other party a liar, or a cheat, but to Coach11 and Sam it does.
I don't believe Sam has made any such statement.......and I know that I haven't. In fact, I said just the opposite.
If a team/coach isn't living up to their end of the deal, they are just as guilty of lieing.
But leaving because DD isn't getting the playing time she wants (but was never promised) is different then leaving because the team isn't getting the exposure that was guarenteed are two different things.
