by DonnieS » Sat May 24, 2014 3:36 pm
What we did was had our kids involved with a lot of different sports, primarily swimming and track when they were young, younger than yours. Ours were 6-7 when they started swimming - I believe that competitive swimming helped build their bodies and muscled them up in ways that seems to have minimized in injuries, they are now 20 and 23. At 12, I would have her in track, sprints, etc. not so much long distance, but 100 meter dash, hurdles, etc. At 12, my girls besides softball, were swimming competitively, running track, flag football, and basketball.
At 12, I would find a fun team for her to play on with a coach who understands that this sport is fun - he also needs to be able to teach the various skills, like the others said, her throw, her footwork, need work. We were very fortunate to stumble into very good skills instructors at early ages - and by that I mean, not you. Whether or not you were a "high school stud" etc. etc. etc. , find good instructors, find, order skills dvds etc and books - so that you know enough to help your kid do the drills properly that the instructors give her to do.
Trust us on this - the biggest risk to your kid continuing to play ball - is people - like you maybe - that go overboard with over expecting, that think that at 12 - you have the next Lisa Fernandez. Most of us who have kids who are playing D1 ball or played D1 ball today, when their kids were 12, were hoping maybe our kids would make varsity on the high school team someday. This other stuff, is gravy. My kids have played 14 years so far, and 16 years respectively. It has to be fun. If its fun, everything else will fall into place for you. You have a bunch of fun years ahead of you, take lots of pictures.