by AlwaysImprove » Thu Oct 17, 2013 2:19 pm
A list of 50 is ok for a broad list. I would have the kid focus down to ~5 that are her primary targets. Put a ton more energy into those 5. Go to their camps. Make a point to write personalized emails to them, etc.
It is super super important that parents spend some time with their kid getting very realistic about which schools are considered. The problem is that many select coaches are actually bad at this part of recruiting. The problem for that coach is they feel if they are too realistic with you, you will leave their program. And who knows, you may be that 1 in a million sophomore that is going to actually go to AZ, OU.
In addition, it is actually to the College benefit that you remain talking to them long after they have made commitments to the other players. They use this tactic to keep good players from going to close rivals.
Almost every family I know started out at the top and worked their way through the schools, from top 10 last year to top 50, to top 100, to anybody good in the area, to oh crap. I tried many times to tell them to be realistic.
Look on robocoach for your schools, in question. Once they put 3 or 4 girls on for the year, if they are a major program, they are done with their money. Only keep that school on this list if you are willing to attend for no-money. Let's say you are willing to go for no-money. After they announce 3 or 4 recruits, you had better be hearing from them, or they are not interested in your kid.
So looking right now. If you are a 2016, you are in your sophomore year, the PAC-12 is largely done, SEC is filling fast. Notre Dame, OU, Baylor are all done. That does not mean no players will announce to these schools, just that they are winding up their efforts on 2016's.