Crazy888 wrote:Got it. I guess I am of the opinion that if the decision is so personal, it should be kept personal and not broadcasted over the internet. The constant posts about college rankings, trends of "elite" athletes, and personal "real life" anecdotes make it seem like you are trying to convince somebody of something.
The "convincing" is to let those in the softball world that there are alternatives other than a Top 20 school.
Crazy888 wrote:Great. Then let me tell you what you so desparately want to hear in the hopes that it prevents any more of your inane posts......Your daughter is so much smarter than all those who accepted D-1 scholarships to those pathetic "universities" in the SEC, Big Ten, Big East, etc. Surely she would have been a 4 year all conference player in the Pac-10 had she stooped to that level. All hail JONRIV for raising such an astute daughter who did not succumb to temptation of playing D-1 softball!
There......now will you please stop trying to justify her decision on here?

Unfortunately many people will utilize their idea of what was the right choice and impose it on others.

jonriv wrote:Pitcher A- #1 HS pitcher in State-good, but not stellar grades
Pitcher B- #2 HS pitcher in state-high academic performer
Both are highly recruited-mostly by teams in the northeast
Pitcher A chooses a top 20 team in SEC- appears on TV. Is a good, but not dominate pitcher.
Pitcher B choose a top academic school in the Patriot League- plays well on an OK team
Who made the right choice???
On purely academic and power of diploma/school- obviously Pitcher B. For the "play at the highest level you can" crowd Pitcher A.
It may also come down to what degree programs are offered......
Obviously the choice is very personal and subjective- it depends on the needs and wants of the student-athlete. What is their planned degree? What do they plan to be when they grow-up? This is the kind of choice that all college-bound students/parents have to face all the time-even non-athletes.
Which is the right choice for your DD?

Sam wrote:jonriv wrote:Pitcher A- #1 HS pitcher in State-good, but not stellar grades
Pitcher B- #2 HS pitcher in state-high academic performer
Both are highly recruited-mostly by teams in the northeast
Pitcher A chooses a top 20 team in SEC- appears on TV. Is a good, but not dominate pitcher.
Pitcher B choose a top academic school in the Patriot League- plays well on an OK team
Who made the right choice???
On purely academic and power of diploma/school- obviously Pitcher B. For the "play at the highest level you can" crowd Pitcher A.
It may also come down to what degree programs are offered......
Obviously the choice is very personal and subjective- it depends on the needs and wants of the student-athlete. What is their planned degree? What do they plan to be when they grow-up? This is the kind of choice that all college-bound students/parents have to face all the time-even non-athletes.
Which is the right choice for your DD?
If they are both happy, they both made the right choice. What anybody else thinks is irrelevant.
CheckWriter wrote:Unfortunately many people will utilize their idea of what was the right choice and impose it on others.
Or just repeat it over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over.
Philosophically I'm with you - I have two DDs in HYPSM schools - but, like Battle with his PGF Western Nationals posts, presenting the same point in many different formats just gets old after a while.
JMO