MoeFoes wrote:Here is the Situation
Bases loaded 2 outs. Batter hits a 1 hopper back to the pitcher. Pitcher throws it home for the 3rd out. When the catcher recieved the ball she had her right foot on the front of the plate and left extended torwards the pitcher. Manager of opposing team has his runner on 3rd base sweep the catchers legs at home after the out was recorded. I was told by the umpire to have my catcher get off the plate once the out was recorded but he raised his hand recording the out but did not say it out loud. 2 different situations runner sliding into a defender and umpire verbally recording the out. How should I approach the umpire on these kinds of situation? and should I have a word with the opposing manager?
Not quite sure I understand what you want to know (but that never stopped me from responding

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he raised his hand recording the out but did not say it out loud.
Sounds to me this was a routine force out at the plate.
The more routine the play, the less volume needed on an "Out" call. - Technically, I think, the verbal should always be made, but in practice, it may not be audible.
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I was told by the umpire to have my catcher get off the plate once the out was recorded
Not bad advice, reduces the chances of F2 getting swept off her feet by a legally sliding runner(IMHO), but not anything that affects the call..
I'm also not a big fan of umpires telling coaches how to coach, but if this is low level ball, no biggie...
Manager of opposing team has his runner on 3rd base sweep the catchers legs at home after the out was recorded
We'll have to take your word for what the opposing manager said...
A runner has every right to slide into her base, she even has a right to continue sliding, even if the throw happens to beat her - as in "close play" - you don't expect her to stop on a dime, do you?
Then again, depending on the rules you are playing under, this could end up as malicious contact or unsportsmanlike behavior.