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Parent receiuting from currect team.

by PDad » Fri Jul 20, 2012 9:23 am

SoftballSoccerDad wrote:Ok, I'll bite. Who is RC?? 10-year-old girls are truly a commodity out here. :?

From Subject: 10U Team List for 2011-2012

coachrc wrote:Mizuno All American 01

Head Coach Ron Cervellin

916-216-4588

rcervellin@msn.com

http://www.mizunoallamerican.com
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by durden » Fri Jul 20, 2012 9:34 am

ICMTM wrote:Sometimes it's best to look for opinions face to face...

My penny says manage the situation with class.



Good suggestion ICMTM, but the window to handle this with class was passed up when coachrc decided to post this on heybucket with a fair amount of detail instead of confronting the parent directly. I'd gather from some of the subsequent responses to coachrc's post that at least some of the people on this forum know who both the coach as well as the parent. With that being the case, coachrc better be awfully sure he has his facts straight and that he isn't basing this on here-say. If this turns out to be a rumor then coachrc just made a fool out of himself and slandered a parent's reputation. If there are facts to back it up, why post on a forum? Just contact the parent and deal with it directly.
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by onlooker » Fri Jul 20, 2012 9:49 am

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by Byu » Fri Jul 20, 2012 12:50 pm

This would be hard to handle face to face if you knew the parents in question they are people of very low moral character :( :twisted: :twisted:
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by durden » Fri Jul 20, 2012 3:29 pm

Byu wrote:This would be hard to handle face to face if you knew the parents in question they are people of very low moral character :( :twisted: :twisted:


You seem to be making my case. If these parents really are so bad, then why post about it online?
I'd think that this would only make things that much clearer as to how to handle the problem.
The only way I could not see confronting them in person about this is if they were known to have a history of violence or some sort of criminal background, but then in that case they should have never had a place on the team.

Now that people have identified the coach and the parents I'd think the coach is now in the position of having to address this with his parents, and soon. The last time I looked at this thread it had over a thousand views in two days. I've got to believe at least some of these views are from parents of his team. I think many of whom who would probably wonder why the coach felt it was appropriate to address this issue concerning another parent on a public forum. I know that's what I'd be thinking.

File this thread under, "How not to handle a dispute with a parent on your team".
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by Turret94 » Fri Jul 20, 2012 4:23 pm

Before judging the parent referred to by RC, I would strongly suggest, that each of you Google the coaches name and or research the Sac Bee from several years back. You can also go to Sac county courts. You might be very surprised at what you discover about this coach and reconsider YOUR position with him or KJ's organization!! Do a little research before rushing to judgement on this. RC may have just opened his closet.
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by durden » Fri Jul 20, 2012 6:15 pm

Turret94 wrote:Before judging the parent referred to by RC, I would strongly suggest, that each of you Google the coaches name and or research the Sac Bee from several years back. You can also go to Sac county courts. You might be very surprised at what you discover about this coach and reconsider YOUR position with him or KJ's organization!! Do a little research before rushing to judgement on this. RC may have just opened his closet.


Turret94 this is amazing stuff. Isn't this the kind of stuff background checks are supposed to catch?
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by lookingIN » Sat Jul 21, 2012 11:20 am

Turret94 wrote:Before judging the parent referred to by RC, I would strongly suggest, that each of you Google the coaches name and or research the Sac Bee from several years back. You can also go to Sac county courts. You might be very surprised at what you discover about this coach and reconsider YOUR position with him or KJ's organization!! Do a little research before rushing to judgement on this. RC may have just opened his closet.


WOW...
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by durden » Sat Jul 21, 2012 11:48 am

For those too lazy to Google:
http://bit.ly/MBlek0

Let me guess, this guy has a hand in the team finances.
Talk about, "low moral character".
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by Byu » Sat Jul 21, 2012 5:53 pm

No he doesn't have his hand in the finances he is just a bad person and horrible coach he was with the Hype for the fall season then left to go to Somewhere else now none of those parents will even talk to him and rumor has it he will be ruining another team in the fall. Cancer :twisted:
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