by Ovr_tha_Fence » Mon Aug 10, 2009 9:22 pm
DD is 2012 and played a full schedule of Gold Ball this year.
It was the best thing we have ever done for her.
As a parent, I had to consider what my DD's goals were. She wants to play at the D1 level at a Major D1. In my opinion, the best way to achieve this was to play up and face the best of the best. She excelled in all phases of her game. She gained valuable experience that she would not have gotten playing at her age bracket.
In turn, she was seen by the very coaches that she dreams of playing for someday. She made an impression on these coaches because she was young and had major game. She faced 2008 D1 Pitchers and Major D1 Bound Pitchers and had 4 Home Runs in her first season of Gold Ball. She played every inning of every game and was the cleanup hitter. She also got valuable experience on the mound facing 2008 players etc. There were some bumps along the way, but she is a more prepared softball player because of the experience.
If a kid has what it takes, which includes determination, dedication and the willingness to face the challenge, then by all means, let them play up.
It's worth it.
Abuse is a perverted way of "winning" over others. It is the opposite of being a good sport.