smokenmirrors86 wrote:A couple of things here. If your DD is talented, she will eventually play.. Maybe not on your preferred timetable, but she will play. Coaches have to win to keep their job and eventually need their best talent on the field. Coaches also don't like looking bad and if you DD remains patient and takes advantage of any little opportunity she gets, she will play. Coaches play the players that everyone in the stands can see should be playing.
Most Importantly, your DD will regret not playing at her high school. Sooner or later, players that love the game regret not having softball be part of their high school experience. Whether the softball experience is good or bad, the personal gratification of being part of something bigger than herself in high school will last forever. Our family knows 3 players who skipped some portion of HS ball and all 3 went on to play in college. All 3 will tell you that not playing HS ball is one of their biggest regrets.
Encourage her to play for her HS. Sit in the stands, root for your team, and just enjoy watching softball. June will be here before you know it.
Ah cmon guys, I've been biting my tongue here and trying to turn over a new leaf for 2010 regarding school ball banter.
I'll have to disagree that softball coaches need to win to keep their jobs. I would say the higher revenue sports such as football and basketball would be true. Softball not the case. Many coaches are in the position to coach a school team because no one else stepped up to take the position. Keep in mind just how many schools have softball and how few experienced coaches we have. Very few coaches such as the NP's PH's etc... Right Snoop?!
As to someones daughter regretting not playing school ball... I think this depends on the school program and the kid. For instance, my dd #1 enjoyed her experience-very social, loves controversy, drama and skill sets were above the others so this made her a leader as well. DD#2 Didn't enjoy the experience as much. Much more introverted, only had one close friend she played with, always sore, over use(conditioned like a defensive tackle and threw daily batting prac till Dr. put foot down). Fortunately we had another good pitch. DD#3 wants to play tennis/travel ball only this year. She too only has one good friend on the team that keeps trying to talk her into playing but has very little desire. It's totally her decision. #4-Will enjoy the experience, loves the social circle.
Every situation , every program will vary. I don't think Danielle Miller(not mentioned in commitments) will miss not playing for her school program(Triton) when she gets to Stanford.