ASA Teams who DO NOT give families a BUDGET

[SportGuy]

You wasted your time...

You say that like you think I didn't already know it.

such insight, so it's premeditated! Nice to see a person take a negative stance for the fight for good. your a giver!

[bruinfans]

A coach of a well known SoCal gold team told me that if parents ever asked to see the books, their dd would be looking for another team.

[SportGuy]

A coach of a well known SoCal gold team told me that if parents ever asked to see the books, their dd would be looking for another team.

Did you ask why?

[bruinfans]

His position was this-everyone was told in the beginning what their upfront & monthly fees would be & what their money was being used for. No one would be asked for "extra" $$$ during the season-no surprises. We're not on the team, but the fees are in line with what the majority of other organizations charge.

Not saying it's right or wrong-it's just one more thing you have to decide personally whether you can live with it or not.

[Skarp]

You wasted your time...

You say that like you think I didn't already know it.

such insight, so it's premeditated! Nice to see a person take a negative stance for the fight for good. your a giver!

I have no idea what you just said. But the reason I knew I was wasting my time with respect to you is that I had seen the quality of thought (or, more precisely, the lack thereof) in your earlier posts. My comments were directed to others, not you.

Now by all means, crusade on, oh warrior for the good. Tilt at windmills to your heart's content.

[SportGuy]

His position was this-everyone was told in the beginning what their upfront & monthly fees would be & what their money was being used for. No one would be asked for "extra" $$$ during the season-no surprises. We're not on the team, but the fees are in line with what the majority of other organizations charge.

Not saying it's right or wrong-it's just one more thing you have to decide personally whether you can live with it or not.

Now HERE is a reasonable answer. I think most people could live with that. Still, re: the... "if you ask to see the book, your DD's off the team!" statement... A little harsh don't you think? Come on, sound more like an excuse to give a bad player the boot!

[SportGuy]

You wasted your time...

You say that like you think I didn't already know it.

such insight, so it's premeditated! Nice to see a person take a negative stance for the fight for good. your a giver!

I have no idea what you just said. But the reason I knew I was wasting my time with respect to you is that I had seen the quality of thought (or, more precisely, the lack thereof) in your earlier posts. My comments were directed to others, not you.

Now by all means, crusade on, oh warrior for the good. Tilt at windmills to your heart's content.

What? I'm sorry... Did you say something?

[bruinfans]

His position was this-everyone was told in the beginning what their upfront & monthly fees would be & what their money was being used for. No one would be asked for "extra" $$$ during the season-no surprises. We're not on the team, but the fees are in line with what the majority of other organizations charge.

Not saying it's right or wrong-it's just one more thing you have to decide personally whether you can live with it or not.

Now HERE is a reasonable answer. I think most people could live with that. Still, re: the... "if you ask to see the book, your DD's off the team!" statement... A little harsh don't you think? Come on, sound more like an excuse to give a bad player the boot!

You may be right........he was just answering my "what if" question. I didn't ask him if his position might change depending on who was doing the asking.

[BenAround]

A coach of a well known SoCal gold team told me that if parents ever asked to see the books, their dd would be looking for another team.

LOL - Did he also try to charge the parents 5K if their DD got herself a scholarship through years of hard work ?

[bruinfans]

A coach of a well known SoCal gold team told me that if parents ever asked to see the books, their dd would be looking for another team.

LOL - Did he also try to charge the parents 5K if their DD got herself a scholarship through years of hard work ?

I know you're first reaction is to slam Phil Bruder, but sorry to burst your bubble-it wasn't him.