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My opinion on the matter is that everyone involved seems to lose focus that we are talking about 7 year old kids playing on a "b" level all-star team. It does sound like your kid made some mistakes but I would venture to say the coach is over-reacting to the events and he/she needs to note what happened and use it as a teaching point in the following weeks practices.

For your part I think you are being overly sensitive to your daughter being pulled. You let your kid play at this level because it is more competitive and if you aren't going to be able to handle when a coach decides to yank your kid then you need to take a hard look at yourself and make sure you have the right make up to be the parent of a kid playing at this level.

You said you are hard on your kids, so ask yourself, if you were the coach and your kid made these mistakes would you have pulled her? If the answer is yes then you have nothing to complain about.