softballdadcoach wrote:I have played SP softball for almost 30 years, and have coached/watched my (and others') daughters play FP softball for 10 years or so. So please do not feign some sort of superiority by asking "You are kidding. Is there truly that much ignorance of the game here?". Any valid point you try to make will be lost. I spoke from my personal experience and knowledge.
And I'm in my 45th year of umpiring, baseball and softball, and I played baseball, had a few tryouts with NL teams (but so has a load of people) and played SP & FP while in the USN and then played SP an additional 34 years, so if you really want to debate experience, we can do that.
In my experience I have NEVER seen a coach being allowed to spit on a ball between innings as posted in the OP. In fact, many times I have seen players and coaches told to stop scuffing a ball with dirt, etc by umpires.
Try rereading the OP. He spit on his hands and rubbed down the ball, BFD! And on top of that, THERE IS NO RULE FORBIDDING IT! (that's right, Spaz, there is no rule). And damaging the ball is not the same thing, but anyone with experience would know that.
Does spitting on the ball gain anyone an advantage? I truly do not know. What advantage is gained by rubbing rosin on a ball in the glove, or a pitcher licking her fingers before a pitch?
In softball, there is no advantage.
Perhaps someone with apparently way more knowledge of the game than me can give us the answer.

Been there, done that.