Trust me bud, if a player is talented enough by the time she hits 15, she will know whether or not she is good enough to play college ball, and so will the coaches that have her on their radar. She's not going to become any less athletically gifted, just because she missed a friendly or two in AZ. Think Colin Kaepernick.
I know of two girls that verbally committed to D1 schools on the West Coast before they finished playing 14U, and that was two years ago. They are now in their junior year of high school. If you don't think college coaches talk to players before their junior year in high school, I have a bridge in San Diego I'd like to sell you.
Why am I talking to you anyway? You're not interested in expanding your education. Please, stop talking to me. I'm here to converse with people that want to discuss softball, and would appreciate it if you would respect my boundaries. Thank you.