by DonnieS » Mon Jan 09, 2012 12:31 pm
DD2 and I had a chance to talk with Lisa some years back, and after telling her DD2 had started travel at around 9 - did a lot of games those early years, Lisa said ' Thats what I missed - I wish I had been able to play that young." And of course, she wouldnt know if she has the kind of body that could stand up to playing that much that young. I just pulled out our games spreadsheet from those days
Age 9 92 games
10 150
11 146
12 136
13 145
14 79
As she got older, and into middle school she was playing volleyball, basketball, tennis, running track - and of course those cut into her softball time. She also play on a flag football team from age 8 through 13 as well as swam competitively during those same years - she had to put
tennis, swimming and basketball away as she got into high school.
Is there any direct benefit from playing that many games - she is 18, hasnt been into any trouble, is incredibly fit, and has a place to play softball for the next 4 years (that I dont have to pay for anymore).
She and I talked over the years about playing too much - too many weekends, etc, too much travel. Her consistent comment about that was "Dad, we get to travel to these different places, hang out with my best friends, stay in hotels , eat out, or have picnics, and on top of that I get to play softball. What is there to get tired of ?" Most of her friends felt the same way - They are all in college now except her and I constantly get the 'Cant we do that again - that was the most fun of my life' when these teammates of hers are home.