Skarp called it chickenshit, and I think that defines it exactly. It is all on the coach and his core values. Loyalty and teamwork are two sides of the same coin when it comes to team sports, and it shouldnt be age specific.
Last night I was scanning HB and ran across an old post for a pitching coach where someone had recently dropped a link to a coach's site,
http://jasoniuli.com/.
I checked out the site and Jason had just written his first post called
Why Do You Train? where he tells about playing in the NSA World Series and reaching the 'ship. Before the game, the coach tells them, “A champion does not cherish the trophy in his hand but cherishes the hands that helped him get the trophy.”
Win or lose, what the girls ALWAYS take away with them and look back at is the experience, not the results.