Interesting thread to come back to....the way the legal system treats rape victims, unreported rapes, date rape is a sad fact of life, & a good parent should "have the talk" & use advice given here. I was the victim of being "dosed" with ecstasy back in '91 & it is not fun & it freaked me out . One thing I haven't seen here that I told my oldest DD prior to going away to college is the danger of grain alcohol, tasteless with a knockout punch.
I will say as an ex bartender at world famous nightclubs restaurants & bars from houston to NYC to LA that alcohol changes everything & I've seen the type of young women who chase athletes, movie stars, executives, artists whatever but trust me they are a minority. TJBD I guess I'm in the 1% because i've hung out with college & Pro athletes as well as guys like sly Stallone so all though I know where you are coming from & seen it 1st handbut you're way way way off base in the numbers. Sure there's a certain percentage of kids at college that go nuts with their new found freedom from parental control they're the ones who usually flunk out. Also young testosterone fueled men who have succeeded have that "swagger" it takes & tend to think very highly of themselves, especially baseball players
I will point out I believe with the sexualization of life through a media that is disturbingly getting worse & worse morals wise that younger females are exposed to & adopt promiscuity more nowadays than ever before & at earlier ages. Factors like less traditional families, less attendance at church also play a role in how things my parents taught me that I passed on to my children are being eroded out of the American way of life as everyone wants attention and their 15 minutes of fame,
Donnie, when i was in the Texas State Guard they taught us that if we are scared for our life & shoot someone through the door, no need to drag them in, just tell the truth the Lone Star State is a lot different than several others. I both dated & had girlfriends in TX who had handguns in their purse of car & they all said the same thing, "I can shoot, my Daddy taught me"