by Watermanhouse » Tue Jul 15, 2014 10:56 am
My honest opinion here....
Every kid has great potential. Never let anyone tell you you can't do something. If you work hard, and never give up, you will reach your full potential. With that said, working hard may look different for different people. It may include change (of teams, coaches, private instructors), and finding the right fit so you get the quality game time and instruction you need to improve.
With that said, not everyone is going to be a D1 player. Not everyone is going to be 18 gold quality. Not everyone is going to even make their high school team. Not everyone is going to make every team they try out for. Preserverance is so important in this game. Do not give up or you will not make it. Simply find a better fit.
Sometimes there is nothing you can do to convince someone that your the best player for the position/team. It's their loss not yours, your look (build, personality, skill set) may or may not fit into their pre-molded idea of what they want. Their problem, not yours. Simply continue looking I believe there is something out there for everyone in the game (consider droping to a less competitive level if needed to develop more).
Again, though try to look at the situation without rose colored glasses. Is your dd a natural athlete or does she have to work a little bit harder to "get it". Does she have the build/abilities of the position she is wanting to play? Ex: Short Stops are typically very fast with a very good glove and one of the strongest arms on the team. First base should be fairly tall to help them catch wild throws and provide a good target. Look at their batting stats. Yes, we all get bad calls from time to time, but are you a contact hitter, power hitter or do you have speed. What is your strength, what is your weakness and how are you adding up to their peers?
Many great pitchers are tall, with lots of strength. Is your daughter going to be tall? It's ok if your not the typical mold, but know that if you want to break the "mold" you may have to work harder and continue to prove your skills to the nay-sayers. Never give up, if you want it. Find a better fit so you can continue to work on your skills and prove them wrong by your success, not your failures.
Make sure though, if your daughter is working hard your supporting her goals, not your own. Competive sports are fun, exciting and rewarding but also come with a huge cost. Make sure it's worth it to everyone involved. Good luck!