STE08 wrote:WELL WE JUST FINISHED UP A ONE DAY FRIENDLY IN KENNEDY W/ OUR 94 STE(BLUE) TEAM AND WE WERE IN AN ELIMINATION GAME LAST NIGHT W/ THE LADY TEXANS TO GET INTO THE C-SHIP......................NEVER MADE IT THOUGH, THE FIELD BLUE MADE A CALL ON A STEAL FROM ONE OF MY GIRLS AT 2ND, HE MADE THE CALL SAFE, WAITED 35-35 SECONDS, MEANWHILE I(GREG) AM CALLING TIME FROM 3RD BECAUSE MY GIRL IS ON THE GROUND W/ HER FOOT ON THE BAG AND THE SS STILL APPLYING THE TAG, SHE IS ALSO CALLING TIME, BUT IS NEVER GRANTED. SO LIKE I SAID 35-45 SECS GO BY HE RUNS OVER TO THE BAG EXAMINES THE PLAY AND SAYS HE HAS MADE A MISTAKE AND THE RUNNER IS OUT, WAS OFF THE BAG THE BY AN INCH-HIS EXACT WORDS.......................AND WE ARE IN THE 6TH INNING WITH A 2-2 BALL GAME. OK SO I CALL TIME AND APPROACH THE THE FIELD BLUE AND ASK FOR AN EXPLANATION AS TO WHY HE HAD WAITED SO MUCH, NOT GRANTED TIME AND AT THE END OF IT ALL HE REVERSES HIS CALL. HE YELLS AT ME AND MY 1ST BASE COACH TO GET BACK TO OUR BOXES WITHOUT AN EXPLANATION, AT WHICH TIME I TOLD HIM I WANTED AN EXPLANATION, HE THEN TOSSES ME FROM THE GAME FOR REFUSING TO GO TO MY BOX, THEN HAS OUR TEAM FORFEIT...WE HAD NOT HAD ANY PROBLEMS BEFORE THAT, I THINK HE WAS OUTTA LINE AND COULD HAVE HANDLED IT BETTER.......UMPIRE WAS FROM GOLIAD AND HIS NAME WAS TOM, I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHO HIS UIC IS TO REPORT!!!I CAN JUST IMAGINE WHAT SCOTT WENT THROUGH..
That is one helluva sentence! It's difficult to decipher your yelling run on rampage, but why did an umpire have to tell your Asst Coach to get back in his box?
I hope and would guess that there is more to this story than you presented here.
You know, your 1B coach has a couple of purposes of existence aside from breathing up unused air...
First, and most importantly, he needs to be making sure his beloved DD plays infield somewhere. Thats a very important job for an assistant coach. In his spare time from that job, he can hit some fly balls or warm up a pitcher while the catcher is struggling with her leg guards. He can offer sage advice to batters like "swing if its there". If he doesnt forget, he can yell "get back, get back!" to a runner on a fly ball. He is also allowed to make little pictures in the dirt with his cleats. He can spit sunflower seeds. He can yell "get the bat" to the oncoming on-deck batter... or fetch it himself. He can keep stuff in his fanny pack. He can wear a cool straw hat. He can High-Five a batter who just walked.
What he cannot do is discuss a call with an umpire. Thats beyond his scope of existence.
Did you two team up on the umpire? Teaming up on the umpire means you both get shut down immediately and the discussion is over. If you two went nutso as a tag team on the umpire.. well you were asking for it. Tell your Asst coach to get back in his little preordained area so the umpire doesnt have too, and you can have a PROFESSIONAL discussion with the umpire. You might even get the time of day by doing so.
Now I'm not sure forfeiting was the best thing (sounds to me like there is many things out of control in Tx, not just you coaches)... forfeiting is not something I want to do over a coach.
Once you are ejected, you can't refuse to leave or demand an explanation. Did you do that? If you continued after youre officially done... Well you asked for it. You dont get squat except 1 minute to exit the grounds after an ejection. You might can work in a few parting shots, but you better be heading out to your favorite tree in the parking lot while doing so. Refusing to leave is a forfeit by rule.
Also, if you "talk" like you type.. ie yell non stop.. I would imagine you caused this pretty much on your own.