Skarp wrote:welovesoftballtoo wrote:Skarp wrote:Normally I remain studiously neutral in these situations, but I'm making an exception here.
I don't know the first thing about SoCal 3d, but I'm pretty sure that I know the person being discussed here personally. If so, there is no way he stole anybody's money or otherwise cheated anyone out of anything. Nor would he "abuse, humiliate and ridicule" any 13 year-old girl--or anyone else for that matter. We're talking about a nice guy and a very nice family. Period.
Sounds like that Madness situation may be a bit of a train wreck. So what? If you don't like it, pack up your crap and move on. Either way, quit sniveling...it's pathetic.
From what I understand, it was not him that that ridiculed or humiliated any 13 year old girl, it was the manager and another coach that did all that. This girl that was humiliated was a very close friend of his (this "nice guy") , and he did nothing about it, he just allowed it to happen.
So you're saying that the OP was formerly a "very close friend" of this guy, but is now dragging him through the mud on a national forum because of the actions of other people?
Or is the OP just some concerned 3rd party witness to all of this abuse, ridicule and humiliation (which was comprised of what, precisely)?
and welovesoftballtoo allowed it to happen!!!