BonezMom wrote:I posted on ask the experts .com and this is the reply I got...
Be careful with some of the answers you get on that site. I check in there every once in awhile and some of the answers given by the "experts" are way off. I will say that Mark Ambrose, the guy that answered your question, participates in some other umpire discussion boards and does seem to know his stuff. I would agree with the answer he gave you.
Some of the other people that answer questions on that site are notorious for giving wrong answers and bad information. If you ever visit their baseball board, some of the answers are so bad that it seems like they're just pulling them randomly out of a hat.
CoachEd: It seems obvious that you had the misfortune of having an ill-trained or inexperienced umpire at your game. That he insisted on calling this infraction a "balk" would be the first clue. The second would be that he was engaging "parents behind the backstop" in his explanation. We deal with coaches and may owe one of them an explanation on a call. Spectators are just that- they are not game participants, we owe them no explanations and should never actively be engaged with them.
It is also unfortunate that his own partner would openly criticize him during the game. No matter how bad your partner is, this is totally unacceptable behavior from an umpire. If the plate umpire had a rule wrong, or maybe missed something that was obvious, his partner should huddle up with him in private and tell him what he saw or what rule he thinks is being misinterpreted. Or, if he doesn't want to do that, then he should keep his mouth shut.
If an umpire is having a problem with controlling the game, the last thing that should happen is for his partner to publically throw him under the bus! Do that, and you can almost guarantee that what little control he may have had is out the window and things are going to go downhill from there!