by Kat » Fri Feb 22, 2008 10:28 am
We are still trying to figure all that out. My DD plays volleyball, basketball and softball. (She made varsity as a freshman in all three sports, we are a 3A school about 1100 kids in it) She had decided to not play club volleyball this year because her club team goes all the way into the first week in July. And with the summer school programs for volleyball and basketball her summer is pretty much eaten up, especially if you combine that with the summer travel softball schedule. Anyhow the intentions was that she would not play club volleyball.......she was asked to come help out a team (her old club) that coach needed help with his girls footwork (16U) so he asked her to come and be the demonstrater, (she has superb footwork) her old volleyball coach (now 17U) sees her from across the court and comes up and says are you playing?, are you available? can we talk? So he proceeds to watch her and after awhile he walks up to the coach she is helping and asks if her could borrow her for a few minutes, so she goes off with him and of course has a smile from ear to ear because she is now playing with her old team and their talent is just so good and she fits right in, same drive, same skills etc. After the practice he goes up to her and says I respect your decision not to play volleyball but I don't agree with it!!. And then the emails began, and he is very good at persuasion, very complimentary, says he will work around her schedule, etc. It has been very hard for her to give up that club volleyball team as it was a group of very talented players and a very good coach, (finished 8th of 200 at Reno Volleyball Festival last year at 16U, plus several big tournament wins) its been hard for her to watch it and I think she is beginning to cave as am I. The drama is unreal when she tries to do it all, I keep telling myself this. If she commits to this volleyball team she will have two weeks where she will be at basketball camp from sunday until thursday, she has a basketball tourney on friday and saturday, she leaves for Reno on Sunday, plays volleyball monday thru wednesday, we fly out to Colorado for Fireworks tourney on Wednesday night, come home after its all over.....I keep thinking how will her body hold up to all of this. She is 15, and sophmore in high school, we knew some day it would come to this but its been very hard on her and it's hard to see the process they have to go through. As much as she loves playing softball and volleyball, basketball is really the game that she can't live without, and although I feel she is a good player (5th in scoring in our league, leads team in rebounds, scoring, steals) she is not a tall girl or a big girl and I struggle with her being able to play basketball in a good program after high school. With that said its her decision not mine, I do not try to influence that decision with my opinions. The coaches are the worst (as far as the drama goes) because they all believe she should play their sport and it should come first, , and she has a future playing in their sport in college, etc..etc.. etc. and you cant really blame them they need committed players to be successful, we get it and it makes it even harder. So if you find some magic pill to take to accomplish this please pass it on.