jonriv wrote:A couple of bits of advice:
1) Try spell check(ie collage, meat etc....)
Oh dude you Got me/ you know what they say about people in glass houses.
You might want to practice what you preach. disquised rumor inuendo. persistance
2) Thinly disquised attacks on meThis is not about me or my dd. We are a private family and do not share her stories on a public blog./quote] are kind of weak. I use these stories to show how and what I base my thoughts on. To show that the are derived from reality and not just rumor an inuendo.
Don’t flatter yourself. You’re not worth an attack. I based my statements of first-hand accounting of others and through observation. I listen more than I speak
3) Dense- perhaps a glance in the mirror is in order? I simply present an alternative idea(based on experience) that you seem to reject whole heartedly. I never disagreed that distance and logistics play a role, but I do suggest that they are not the only reason[quote"The lady doth protest too much, methinks."
Your hole premises has been based on what a player needs to do, Not once have I disagreed or dismissed the importance of a player/family take a proactive role in their recruiting endeavour. That is step 1
What I do dismiss is your claim that players in the satellite field did not get the coaches there due to their lack prospecting. Buyer or seller, no matter what business you need to know your market. Players need to understand what limitations a coach might be dealing with. She/he who understand/researches their markets, closes the deal.
A player understanding that in CO the SP & FW a coach might/ will deal with limitations is in a much better position to close the deal
My daughter was not a blue chip player. She was a very good player and a top notch self-promoter/communicator. I think sometimes through sheer will and persistance she got coaches to come see her play. This was often at the same time parents of teammates were complaining about "lack of coaches" and "waste of time" PuraVida, believe what you want, but only a fool does not take in consideration different ideas.[/quote]
I am happy for your dd, this however, is not about her or my kid. What I do see is a fool without any first-hand knowledge of the Sp/FW, which has been provide first hand accounting by others who have been there still refusing to accept the facts; I am not referring to myself as I am just a dad with a check book with no regrets. It has been great experience for us as a family and for my dd. Who in the process became very savvy in the art negotiating