by ferst » Sat May 30, 2015 10:08 pm
Very possibly many of these sort of accusations toward the past Stanford coach could be made against other coaches to some degree. Doesn’t make it okay and it’s good that these situations come to light because it will effect understanding and change.
The reality is a D1 college athletic environment is kin to a “professional workplace”, which has a formal legal definition, and as with any “professional workplace” there is legal accountability by all involved. Unfortunately it is not unusual for college coaches, players, parents, and AD’s to lack the understanding that a D1 college team is a workplace environment.
College coaches who imply or promote a team understanding that, “we are a family” are setting themselves up for serious problems. An athletic team (especially at the collegiate level), is not a “family”. In a “family” there is the presumption of “unconditional” mutual support. Very unlike a “family”, a head coach by definition is constantly required to make value judgements in their players and act according to their judgements. A coach who promotes that their team is a “family” is either ignorant or lying, and is inappropriately patronizing their players. Coaches and players (like employers and employees) can care very deeply about each other, but it is not a “family”. The NCAA should do more also to promote a better understanding among college coaches, players, parents, and AD’s .
Many accused hostile workplace situations can have shared blame but ultimately the employer, has a huge legal burden and has the ultimate responsibility to manage a proper workplace environment. No “supervisor” (in this case, the head coach) ever wants to be in a situation where accused of creating a “hostile work environment”. The “employer” (in this case, the university), to mitigate liability, typically takes a “guilty until proven innocent approach” toward the accused supervisor. Not to say that this is right or wrong, but rather it is the reality.
Coaches that feel they don’t need to maintain a professional type of environment (they are not remotely surrogate parents or managing a family) are misguiding their players and run a tremendous risk and are likely to incur problems with players. If they want to keep parents in their proper place, have the parents properly keep the "family" designation. The head coach leads the team of players and is responsible for managing the objectives of the "team". To reiterate, coaches and players can care very deeply about each other and may establish bonds that last a lifetime, but it is not a “family”, it is a "team" with team objectives.
Again, like it or not, but this is the reality and players heading to play D1 college athletics are best served to have an advance understanding of the reality.
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ferst on Mon Jun 01, 2015 3:21 pm, edited 1 time in total.