Jeez fasterpitchdad why so harsh? Have you never met a smart girl who loved to play the game?
CrankyMom softball coaches at the elite academics are like admission asterisks of being a minority, family legacy etc they help & "all things being equal" between an unknown number of students your DD would get the nod due to the coaches letter/interest whatever.
Two years ago, DD's HS 2nd baseman loved the game, busted her butt on & off the field. After getting accepted to numerous academic elite colleges she narrowed it down to Yale or MIT (where she could play DIII). Well after campus visits she chose the Ivy school, became the coxswain for the rowing team & still competes as an athlete. I think this was the type of answer fasterPitchDad was attempting to make. Sounds to me like a win win for your DD & whatever road she takes will be the right one.