coolstuff wrote:
If the only thing your children had to worry about was what the "cool kids" thought about them, then they did not experience the kind of bullying that is described in these posts or any of the linked articles and books.
In their schools, the "cool kids" were the bullies and did not shy away from the designation.
This is not just about rejection from a social group. I'm glad your children were never the targets of true bullying, and it certainly sounds like they were not unless you have more details to add to prove otherwise. But don't minimize the effects of serious, long-term bullying and cyber-bulling based on your children's experiences.
Sorry, but to me "cyber" bullying is a non-starter. It reminds me of a bank teller who was robbed through a drive in or people who complain about what is in a movie, on TV or radio. TURN OFF THE PHONE! BLOCK A NUMBER! CHANGE A NUMBER! BLOCK A SCREEN NAME!
Should you have to go through that? Hell, no, but it beats whining in a public forum.