Coach,
I think we would all love our parents to be normal people. The problem is that anybody who has their kid doing anything that takes up to 5-6 hours during the workweek and nearly the entire weekend, every weekend is, by definition, not normal. These people are certifiable. Nobody knows more about their kid than them and any feedback you provide to these people is summarily disregarded.
We would love to have our parents (not all of them) lobotomized after they give us the PIIN number for their ATM card. You will see some chatter on this board about coaches recruiting players at orphanages.
If I had a magic wand, I would outlaw Fall Ball in its entirety. I would limit the recruiting period to the summer. I would outlaw any contact by either side until the player began their junior season in HS. These children are being abused by a system designed BY adults FOR adults. The kids get nothing out of the current system except for injuries.
Sorry....I kind of went off on a tangent there.